REVEALED!!! Unattractive Things Women Find In Men

Hi darlings & happy new year to y’all. I’m sure you all enjoyed the festive season, anyways yours truly did. I'm super excited for 2014 and everything it has to bring and I hope you are too!
Before I go on, I would like 2 use this opportunity to appreciate a unique personality in d person of Yemi Olaniyan, the ceo of YOB, thanks 4 the privilege 2 be featured on this world class blog *dancing skelewu* Now back to the matter.

UNATTRACTIVE THINGS WOMEN FIND IN MEN

*MEN WITH AMBITION
Women love a purpose driven man who works hard, had a vision & is actively trying to achieve that vision. And so if you have no job and/ or no ambition, we can't be together.
Ambition is the New SEXY.


*MEN WHO SMELL FUNNY
Man-scent can be intoxicating. It can drive us to wear your T-shirt all day just to inhale & relieve the memory. Good smells evoke Good feelings, but bad smell???Ugh.
If his breath smells like coffee and hard boiled eggs, his jeans smells like they need to be washed, or his armpit smells like he spent his whole day working on a farm then no darling, We can't deal. We have to like the way you smell. Point blank!

*MEN WHO AREN'T FUNNY
Women never find a man that can't make them laugh attractive. Laughter may seem silly to some, but it's a necessity for the female folks.
Life is too short & it can be far too serious_Laughter reminds us to chill out.


*MEN WHO DON'T CARE ABOUT THEIR HEALTH/HYGIENE
We are not perfect, we don't exercise as much as we should & sometimes we fall short of our diet objectives (which am guilty of) and so to be fair we are not expecting to date a man who is a pinnacle of health, But if a man has beer for breakfast and cigarettes for lunch, there's a strong chance that we might be repulsed by him. As we get older we are becoming more interested in partnerships that have potential to last a life time.


*MEN WHO CAN'T DEFEND THEMSELVES
 Call it carnal, call it archaic, but if a man can't defend himself, we can't take him serious. True we don't want to be around a man who goes about picking fights. Ever! (Seriously we are too old for all that drama, and Dudes that pick fights are extremely unattractive) But I do need to know when the need arises you can hold your own too & also defend me as well. Lol

*MEN WHO SUFFER FROM "Little men syndrome"
Some women aren't really particular about height differences. Personally I have dated a short guy before *winks*. That said, we can't deal with men who are insecure about their stature & go all about it in a negative form. Relax. Good things can come in small packages, and we are open to accepting all packages, as long as they are good enough

*MEN WHO ONLY LOOK FLY IN A HAT (or other clothing items)
Ladies, I know it's not just me. We've all been deceived by a man who was gorgeous with his hat on, but looked crazy when he took it off. Just like must men appreciate natural beauty, so do we. We all would appreciate a man who is sexy without covering half of his face. I can already hear men rallying against Spanx, wonder bras & weaves as I type this...


*CHEAP MEN
Let me be clear we understand the importance of budgeting & frugality. I personally respect a long saving term savings plan & the wisdom that keeps a person from careless spending. That said, often cheap men aren't just skimping on money only: they are often cheap with their time, cheap with their emotions and cheap with their level of creativity. Cheap men are often holding back all of their resources for some future plan, we don't know what that is &   neither do we want anything to do with it.


*HIGH MAINTENANCE MEN
We love a well dressed man, but if vanity impedes on our desire to explore and experiment new things, we just wouldn't be compatible.

*THE INAUTHENTIC NICE GUY
We love genuinely nice men, they smile, they are attentive, and they make the world a better place.
How to spot the inauthentic nice guy_ He is super unattractive , his kindness is rooted in a lack of self worth, a need to please EVERYONE at the expense of his own happiness. This man, in a relationship is a pushover. I'm not asking to date a complete asshole, but healthy boundaries are part of being an adult. Also, a lack of authenticity of any sort is unattractive for me.

Guys now you know what we want *smiles*
Till I come you way next time
XoXo.
Sarah OKOLO